[Viva] "What makes you feel sexy?" - an article in progress

Mon Oct 22 08:44:13 PDT 2018

What a wonderful email to wake up too!! Thanks so much Denise - fabulous
answers!  Anyone else up for a brief reflection on their sexiness? Still
accepting answers, in fact could really use some more input. Ladies - can
we talk about sexy today? Please feel free to email me or directly and I
can call you or email me directly or be Denise Brave and post it on ViVA!

Thanks Denise - and Margarite, I will get back to you later today!

Have a great start to your week ladies, and for those going to the
empowerment forum - Have a wonderful time. I am really sorry I wont be
joining you but I can't wait to hear the results of the forum.

Maybe en route to Springbrook this topic could be bus conversation and some
one could pas me on some notes?....It would be fabulous to have a bus load
of empowered women talking about getting their sexy on! Remember -
anonymous responses- NO NAMES REQUIRED!

If someone took point form notes and took a picture and sent them to me I
would be thrilled - co credit for collaboration on the article?...any
aspiring writers out there?

Big hugs all, love,
Shelly

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On Sun, Oct 21, 2018 at 6:23 PM Denise Wozniak <deniseswozniak at gmail.com>
wrote:

> It seems I sent this to Viva! Oh well! My sexy feelings are out there!
>
> LOL
>
> Denise
>
> ---------- Forwarded message ---------
> From: Denise Wozniak <deniseswozniak at gmail.com>
> Date: Sun, Oct 21, 2018 at 6:20 PM
> Subject: Re: [Viva] "What makes you feel sexy?" - an article in progress
> To: <viva at lists.resist.ca>
>
>
> Hi Shelly:
>
> Are you coming to the retreat?
>
> In answer to your questions:
> 1. Silk; lace; high boots, great shoes, stockings (yes I mean with a
> garter belt!); tops that are crew neck and no sleeves, i.e. show off my
> shoulders. long gloves that cut off before the elbow,;a high neck woolly
> sweater; a well fitted tweed blazer; riding boots and riding pants; front
> fastening bras! short skirts with boots; a close fitting dress; low
> necklines; angora sweaters because people love to touch angora! other than
> that, it's hard to say right now because I am overweight and clothing is
> not feeling sexy. I love having my hair done, if they do a good job.  I
> always put makeup on to go out and like to take my time with makeup and
> hair to have it looking feminine and sexy. I think longer is better as far
> as that goes for me.  Not too much makeup though.. I look to look as
> natural as possible. I like my hair with a bit of blonde in it but mostly
> natural - I'm lucky, hardly any grey yet.
>
> 2.  Sound.. spa music! lol    definitely waves coming in sound; rippling
> brook; rain and a storm; silence!  our favorite romantic song; the guggle
> of wine pouring (this is a great question about sound and it's really
> making me think!)
> Sight: a candle flickering; low lights; my man! curves, muted colours;
> flickering fire; a half smile
> Smell:  red wine; a fireplace with logs on; sea water at a tropical
> destination; bubble bath; my husband's skin; fresh sheets;
> Touch, anything that is light to the touch.. you can only just feel it;
> soft leather; angora; fur feel when worn; warm water
> Taste: crab shared; cheesecake; chocolate pudding, chocolate moose;
> strawberries
>
> 3. Environment: candlelight; otherwise anywhere
>
> 4.  It means being aware of my body and knowing I feel confident about how
> I am looking; being in the right place at the right time.
>
> 5.  So many things.. Donald Trump pretty much sums it up!
>
> Hope this helps
>
> Denise
>
> On Mon, Oct 15, 2018 at 9:38 AM shelly tognazzini <shetognazzini at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>> Good morning ViVA women,
>>
>> I am writing an article for www.lifeandlove.ca and I would like to
>> "interview", talk on the phone or exchange emails, with women ranging in
>> age from 20's - 70's about "What makes you feel sexy?" and "What doesn't!"
>>
>> I have written a couple questions below and would love to hear from as
>> many women as possible. Write as little or as much as you like, all
>> responses will be anonymous, except for your age - so readers can see the
>> generational responses, differences (or not!) and the variety.
>>
>> Simply respond directly to me with your response, or share on ViVA if you
>> are feeling really bold! I need to get as many as possible by this Friday
>> October 19th.  Hope you can find 15 minutes to think about and write some
>> notes down on the topic.
>>
>> Questions for a starting point:
>>
>> 1. What do you like to wear - how does your clothing make you feel sexy?
>> Is there a certain hair or make up style that contributes to feeling sexy
>> or is oh natural your style?
>>
>> 2.  What about the senses - is there a sound, or sight, or smell or
>> touch, taste or space that heightens your sexiness?
>>
>> 3. What about the environment - does it matter where you are or can
>> feeling sexy happen anywhere?
>>
>> 4. What does feeling sexy mean to you?
>>
>> 5. What is just plain *not sexy* - qualities in potential/partners,
>> attitudes, clothing, personal hygiene or ?
>>
>> Thanks ladies!! If you want to talk on the phone I have an unlimited long
>> distance plan and could call you - if you have any questions please don't
>> hesitate to ask - really hope I hear from as many women as possible.
>> Thanks gals, hope everyone has a great start to their week.
>>
>> Hope to hear from you!
>>
>> Big hugs,
>> Shelly Tognazzini  604 440 1579
>>
>>
>>
>>
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>> HIV Peer Research, Health and Wellness Coordination
>>
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