[Viva] "What makes you feel sexy?" - an article in progress

[Denise Wozniak]

Hi Shelly:

Are you coming to the retreat?

In answer to your questions:
1. Silk; lace; high boots, great shoes, stockings (yes I mean with a garter
belt!); tops that are crew neck and no sleeves, i.e. show off my shoulders.
long gloves that cut off before the elbow,;a high neck woolly sweater; a
well fitted tweed blazer; riding boots and riding pants; front fastening
bras! short skirts with boots; a close fitting dress; low necklines; angora
sweaters because people love to touch angora! other than that, it's hard to
say right now because I am overweight and clothing is not feeling sexy. I
love having my hair done, if they do a good job.  I always put makeup on to
go out and like to take my time with makeup and hair to have it looking
feminine and sexy. I think longer is better as far as that goes for me.
Not too much makeup though.. I look to look as natural as possible. I like
my hair with a bit of blonde in it but mostly natural - I'm lucky, hardly
any grey yet.

2.  Sound.. spa music! lol    definitely waves coming in sound; rippling
brook; rain and a storm; silence!  our favorite romantic song; the guggle
of wine pouring (this is a great question about sound and it's really
making me think!)
Sight: a candle flickering; low lights; my man! curves, muted colours;
flickering fire; a half smile
Smell:  red wine; a fireplace with logs on; sea water at a tropical
destination; bubble bath; my husband's skin; fresh sheets;
Touch, anything that is light to the touch.. you can only just feel it;
soft leather; angora; fur feel when worn; warm water
Taste: crab shared; cheesecake; chocolate pudding, chocolate moose;
strawberries

3. Environment: candlelight; otherwise anywhere

4.  It means being aware of my body and knowing I feel confident about how
I am looking; being in the right place at the right time.

5.  So many things.. Donald Trump pretty much sums it up!

Hope this helps

Denise

On Mon, Oct 15, 2018 at 9:38 AM shelly tognazzini <shetognazzini at gmail.com>
wrote:

> Good morning ViVA women,
>
> I am writing an article for www.lifeandlove.ca and I would like to
> "interview", talk on the phone or exchange emails, with women ranging in
> age from 20's - 70's about "What makes you feel sexy?" and "What doesn't!"
>
> I have written a couple questions below and would love to hear from as
> many women as possible. Write as little or as much as you like, all
> responses will be anonymous, except for your age - so readers can see the
> generational responses, differences (or not!) and the variety.
>
> Simply respond directly to me with your response, or share on ViVA if you
> are feeling really bold! I need to get as many as possible by this Friday
> October 19th.  Hope you can find 15 minutes to think about and write some
> notes down on the topic.
>
> Questions for a starting point:
>
> 1. What do you like to wear - how does your clothing make you feel sexy?
> Is there a certain hair or make up style that contributes to feeling sexy
> or is oh natural your style?
>
> 2.  What about the senses - is there a sound, or sight, or smell or touch,
> taste or space that heightens your sexiness?
>
> 3. What about the environment - does it matter where you are or can
> feeling sexy happen anywhere?
>
> 4. What does feeling sexy mean to you?
>
> 5. What is just plain *not sexy* - qualities in potential/partners,
> attitudes, clothing, personal hygiene or ?
>
> Thanks ladies!! If you want to talk on the phone I have an unlimited long
> distance plan and could call you - if you have any questions please don't
> hesitate to ask - really hope I hear from as many women as possible.
> Thanks gals, hope everyone has a great start to their week.
>
> Hope to hear from you!
>
> Big hugs,
> Shelly Tognazzini  604 440 1579
>
>
>
>
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> *Shelly Tognazzini*
> HIV Peer Research, Health and Wellness Coordination
>
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