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[Denise Becker]

Dear Kathy:

Quite honestly, I dare not reply in an email to you right now because I am
absolutely stunned at your words..

Denise

On Mon, Oct 29, 2012 at 12:52 AM, kathy G <kathy.grant at telus.net> wrote:

> Ms. Becker and Viva Gals,
> I am sorry, I did go to the  website and misunderstood when i read the
> main heading under Denise's name- "Professional Speaker / Speaking Coach"
>  I assumed that would mean she would charge a fee or honorarium for these
> services.  It is nice to know she is not selling anything.
> I read the blog re what NOT to say to a person who has lost someone and
> personally, I didnt mind last January when i lost my dad to cancer, that
> people did their best to express themselves with this uncomfortable
> subject.  Lets face it,,, if you have hiv or cancer or whatever that could
> be terminal, and, if you choose disclose your medical condition - you set
> yourself up-- to have to help people understand what you are going thru.
>  If they screw it up what can you say, : "my god that was tastless?"
> I think whether its a child or a parent or a best friend we lose, we are
> not born knowing how to cope.  Nor should we IMPOSE a 'list' of do's and
> dont's on others.
> IMHO it is distasteful at the very least.  However, how you choose to
> broadcast your life is entirely up to you, Denise, but as a mother I would
> never use my deceased child as a vehicle to reach people on my blog.  Again
> i am referring to the Professional Speaker / Coach aspect of this site.
>
> I hope you can find in this email,  my own personal opinion, and not
> disrepectful to how you choose to express yourself.
> Sincerely,
> Kathy
>
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