[SWAF-Potluck] Warning about client

[Margaret Haugen]

Thank you for the heads up. I'm sorry you had this negative experience. I
do hear you about feeling vulnerable in the slow times.

On Jan 20, 2018 1:19 PM, "Hannah Jackson" <hjackeso at gmail.com> wrote:

> Hey all, it’s Juliet Bataille, I’ve been on this list for a while but
> never posted. I just wanted to share about a bad experience with a client I
> had last night as a heads up to you all.
>
> I met this guy (I don’t have his name because I didn’t get a chance to
> screen this time because I was under time/financial pressure) which I feel
> really bad about but what can you do
>
> But I know he is a doctor with coastal health, 28 yr old
> Venezuelan/lebanese guy who lives downtown in an apartment on 1372 Seymour
> st, phone number 778-877-8816 <(778)%20877-8816>. I saw him at this
> apartment for an agreed upon hour last night, he seemed chill and friendly
> and wanted to talk for a long time, when I realized we were running close
> to an hour I told him that and asked if he would like to extend and we
> agreed on an hour and a half.
>
> When we got to it he was a little rough and tried to rub himself,
> uncovered, on my junk but I was able to deter him with my hands. During the
> sex he was constantly biting and sucking my neck very hard, I told him 3-4
> times to stop biting and not to touch my neck at all but he would not stop
> when I asked and as a result I have several heavy red bruises on my neck.
> At the end of it it was almost 2 hours I had been there, he only paid me
> for one hour. I reminded him that I had clearly asked him about the time
> and we explicitly agreed on an hour and a half and he said he had no more
> cash and thought the extra time was “just between us”. He told me I could
> return once he had more cash but not surprisingly ghosted.
>
> I am kicking myself for not checking the coastal health name tag he showed
> me for his name, but if you receive a call from this person know that he is
> not a safe client as he cannot respect personal and financial boundaries. I
> don’t really know what else I can do?
>
> Hope everyone is doing okay during the lean winter months, I don’t know
> about anyone else but I find business being slow tends to make me more
> vulnerable to accept situations that I feel unsure about, which is
> obviously super harmful.
>
> Thanks for listening,
>
> Jb
>
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