[SWAF-Potluck] Warning about client

[Hannah Jackson]

Hey all, it’s Juliet Bataille, I’ve been on this list for a while but never
posted. I just wanted to share about a bad experience with a client I had
last night as a heads up to you all.

I met this guy (I don’t have his name because I didn’t get a chance to
screen this time because I was under time/financial pressure) which I feel
really bad about but what can you do

But I know he is a doctor with coastal health, 28 yr old
Venezuelan/lebanese guy who lives downtown in an apartment on 1372 Seymour
st, phone number 778-877-8816. I saw him at this apartment for an agreed
upon hour last night, he seemed chill and friendly and wanted to talk for a
long time, when I realized we were running close to an hour I told him that
and asked if he would like to extend and we agreed on an hour and a half.

When we got to it he was a little rough and tried to rub himself,
uncovered, on my junk but I was able to deter him with my hands. During the
sex he was constantly biting and sucking my neck very hard, I told him 3-4
times to stop biting and not to touch my neck at all but he would not stop
when I asked and as a result I have several heavy red bruises on my neck.
At the end of it it was almost 2 hours I had been there, he only paid me
for one hour. I reminded him that I had clearly asked him about the time
and we explicitly agreed on an hour and a half and he said he had no more
cash and thought the extra time was “just between us”. He told me I could
return once he had more cash but not surprisingly ghosted.

I am kicking myself for not checking the coastal health name tag he showed
me for his name, but if you receive a call from this person know that he is
not a safe client as he cannot respect personal and financial boundaries. I
don’t really know what else I can do?

Hope everyone is doing okay during the lean winter months, I don’t know
about anyone else but I find business being slow tends to make me more
vulnerable to accept situations that I feel unsure about, which is
obviously super harmful.

Thanks for listening,

Jb
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