[SWAF-Potluck] uncomfortable session... From Jennifer

[Andy Sorfleet]

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From: Jennifer <jennifersnurumassage at gmail.com>
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Date: Wed, 2 Apr 2014 13:23:55 -0700
Subject: uncomfortable session
hi everyone
I just wanted to share an uncomfortable experience I had with a client
named Dennis Wang (email: denniswang444 at gmail.com)
yesterday. the session went well, as it should although he kept
asserting that he doesn't usually come to independent workers, and
prefers Chinese massage parlours in Richmond. at the end of my the
session things went badly when I didn't have correct change for him.
(it is my policy not to keep change on hand (which is not listed on my
website and that is my fault and will change) but I give all tips to
charity (which is listed on the website). anyways, things got heated
and he pushed me, threatened me, and refused to leave. I finally
threatened to yell out to my neighbors and told him I would come to
his home and his work if he didn't leave me alone.

...exhale.

I am very lucky to have wonderful clients and 99.8% of the time
everyone is happy and satisfied at the end of our session. this ordeal
left me feeling very disempowered and shaky as it would anyone whose
home, business, and personal safety is threatened.

anyways, I just wanted to share the information and reach out to the
community for support.  any recommendations or thoughts from others
who have gone through this?

in love and gratitude for all of you.
jennifer