[SWAF-Potluck] Ongoing harrassment

[Mary Miriam Magdalena]

Hi Suzy,

I don't have anything specific to add, unfortunately, to help with your
plight, but I just want to offer my love, support and understanding in
whatever way that may help you to get through this attack. It must be super
stressful to not feel safe and to have your livelihood threatened. I hope
you can get this resolved somehow!! Is there anything specific anyone can
do? Do you need another space to work out of occasionally?

Looking forward to seeing you and everyone Sunday night!

Andrea


On Tue, Dec 17, 2013 at 3:48 PM, Aanya Mas-sage <aanyamassage at gmail.com>wrote:

> Thank you everyone who contributed feedback. Should the harrassment
> continue, I may have to do as suggested and change aliases and phone
> numbers. I am going to wait it out in the meantime. Thanks again everyone
> and see you Sunday!
>
>
> On Tuesday, December 17, 2013, Ki Bournes wrote:
>
>>  Hi Suzy,
>>
>> I talked to my legal adviser (Christina) and she said that even if you
>> could get the police involved safely, getting a criminal harassment
>> prosecution against this person would be extremely difficult because he
>> isn't making physical threats. Also tracking internet based harassment is
>> not easy prove. So no luck there.
>>
>> I think Kamile made some good suggestions. Change your work identity.
>> It's very unfortunate that you are having this happen to you. That guy is
>> an asshole.
>>
>> Good luck. Come to the potluck on Sunday and get some hugs.
>>
>> Ki
>>
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>>  On 12/17/2013, 6:43 AM, Kamile Kapel wrote:
>>
>> Omg, Aanya, I am so sorry you are having to deal with this!  What a
>> nightmare!
>>
>>  I once had a horrible man write an awful review about me after a very
>> unpleasant session. In retrospect I should have ended the session and given
>> him his money back, saying it wasn't a fit. I attempted to defend myself
>> and other clients spoke up for me but it only drew more people to the
>> thread and they attacked my clients who we're putting in a good word for
>> me. The thread had so many hits that I think I lost the perb community's
>> support even though I had previously been very popular there.  I eventually
>> got the review taken down from perb but then he posted it on terb where I
>> couldn't have it removed
>>
>>  After five years, of seeing this review pop up at the top of google
>> searches for me, I finally decided to change my work name and my website
>> URL.
>>
>>  I have no experiencing dealing with the police. All I can suggest is
>> changing your name, number, website and pics and/or blocking this person
>> from contacting you . Maybe try advertising somewhere new for a while?  The
>> Georgia straight is a good alternative to backpage and Cl.  Maybe even the
>> courier.
>>
>>  Best,
>> Kamile
>>
>>
>> Sent from my iPhone
>>
>> On Dec 16, 2013, at 2:11 PM, Aanya Mas-sage <aanyamassage at gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>  Hello everyone,
>>
>> As some of you you may remember I received some harrassing emails earlier
>> this year. Recently I have been the victim of ongoing, escallated
>> harrassment, including but not limited to: posts on PERB & CL about my
>> place being monitored by police amongst other allegations in an attempt to
>> drive business away; posting my REAL NAME on both those websites; flagging
>> and removing ALL my ads on most websites, paid and unpaid, causing me
>> financial hardship; and emailing me and posing as someone in my building
>> telling me I am a sick person and everyone in the building wants me out,
>> causing me serious distress and exhaustion due to constantly being on high
>> alert. I spoke with Susan Davies and she said my options are limited and I
>> am possibly putting myself under the microscope by involving the police. I
>> have been lucky that I am able to get the posts removed because I have this
>> wonderful community behind me but I am afraid this person is just getting
>> increasingly frustrated that I am shutting down their avenues to get at me
>> in some way. I am just wondering if anyone has been through the process of
>> reporting harrassment to the cops, and could offer some advice or
>> reassurance?  I have suspision of who it may be - namely an ex Perbite who
>> wrote bad reviews before about me, and the wording he uses is very similar
>> to the prior reviews. If you have any insight, it is very much appreciated!
>>
>>  Much gratitude,
>> Aanya
>>
>>
>> --
>> Warmest regards,
>>
>> * Aanya*
>> 778-848-7666
>> http://aanyamassage.blogspot.come
>>
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>
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> Warmest regards,
>
> * Aanya*
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