[SWAF-Potluck] Ongoing harrassment

[Aanya Mas-sage]

Thank you everyone who contributed feedback. Should the harrassment
continue, I may have to do as suggested and change aliases and phone
numbers. I am going to wait it out in the meantime. Thanks again everyone
and see you Sunday!

On Tuesday, December 17, 2013, Ki Bournes wrote:

>  Hi Suzy,
>
> I talked to my legal adviser (Christina) and she said that even if you
> could get the police involved safely, getting a criminal harassment
> prosecution against this person would be extremely difficult because he
> isn't making physical threats. Also tracking internet based harassment is
> not easy prove. So no luck there.
>
> I think Kamile made some good suggestions. Change your work identity. It's
> very unfortunate that you are having this happen to you. That guy is an
> asshole.
>
> Good luck. Come to the potluck on Sunday and get some hugs.
>
> Ki
>
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>  On 12/17/2013, 6:43 AM, Kamile Kapel wrote:
>
> Omg, Aanya, I am so sorry you are having to deal with this!  What a
> nightmare!
>
>  I once had a horrible man write an awful review about me after a very
> unpleasant session. In retrospect I should have ended the session and given
> him his money back, saying it wasn't a fit. I attempted to defend myself
> and other clients spoke up for me but it only drew more people to the
> thread and they attacked my clients who we're putting in a good word for
> me. The thread had so many hits that I think I lost the perb community's
> support even though I had previously been very popular there.  I eventually
> got the review taken down from perb but then he posted it on terb where I
> couldn't have it removed
>
>  After five years, of seeing this review pop up at the top of google
> searches for me, I finally decided to change my work name and my website
> URL.
>
>  I have no experiencing dealing with the police. All I can suggest is
> changing your name, number, website and pics and/or blocking this person
> from contacting you . Maybe try advertising somewhere new for a while?  The
> Georgia straight is a good alternative to backpage and Cl.  Maybe even the
> courier.
>
>  Best,
> Kamile
>
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On Dec 16, 2013, at 2:11 PM, Aanya Mas-sage <aanyamassage at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>  Hello everyone,
>
> As some of you you may remember I received some harrassing emails earlier
> this year. Recently I have been the victim of ongoing, escallated
> harrassment, including but not limited to: posts on PERB & CL about my
> place being monitored by police amongst other allegations in an attempt to
> drive business away; posting my REAL NAME on both those websites; flagging
> and removing ALL my ads on most websites, paid and unpaid, causing me
> financial hardship; and emailing me and posing as someone in my building
> telling me I am a sick person and everyone in the building wants me out,
> causing me serious distress and exhaustion due to constantly being on high
> alert. I spoke with Susan Davies and she said my options are limited and I
> am possibly putting myself under the microscope by involving the police. I
> have been lucky that I am able to get the posts removed because I have this
> wonderful community behind me but I am afraid this person is just getting
> increasingly frustrated that I am shutting down their avenues to get at me
> in some way. I am just wondering if anyone has been through the process of
> reporting harrassment to the cops, and could offer some advice or
> reassurance?  I have suspision of who it may be - namely an ex Perbite who
> wrote bad reviews before about me, and the wording he uses is very similar
> to the prior reviews. If you have any insight, it is very much appreciated!
>
>  Much gratitude,
> Aanya
>
>
> --
> Warmest regards,
>
> * Aanya*
> 778-848-7666
> http://aanyamassage.blogspot.come
>
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