[SWAF-Potluck] Ongoing harrassment

[Kamile Kapel]

Omg, Aanya, I am so sorry you are having to deal with this!  What a nightmare!

I once had a horrible man write an awful review about me after a very unpleasant session. In retrospect I should have ended the session and given him his money back, saying it wasn't a fit. I attempted to defend myself and other clients spoke up for me but it only drew more people to the thread and they attacked my clients who we're putting in a good word for me. The thread had so many hits that I think I lost the perb community's support even though I had previously been very popular there.  I eventually got the review taken down from perb but then he posted it on terb where I couldn't have it removed

After five years, of seeing this review pop up at the top of google searches for me, I finally decided to change my work name and my website URL. 

I have no experiencing dealing with the police. All I can suggest is changing your name, number, website and pics and/or blocking this person from contacting you . Maybe try advertising somewhere new for a while?  The Georgia straight is a good alternative to backpage and Cl.  Maybe even the courier. 

Best,
Kamile


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> On Dec 16, 2013, at 2:11 PM, Aanya Mas-sage <aanyamassage at gmail.com> wrote:
> 
> Hello everyone,
> 
> As some of you you may remember I received some harrassing emails earlier this year. Recently I have been the victim of ongoing, escallated harrassment, including but not limited to: posts on PERB & CL about my place being monitored by police amongst other allegations in an attempt to drive business away; posting my REAL NAME on both those websites; flagging and removing ALL my ads on most websites, paid and unpaid, causing me financial hardship; and emailing me and posing as someone in my building telling me I am a sick person and everyone in the building wants me out, causing me serious distress and exhaustion due to constantly being on high alert. I spoke with Susan Davies and she said my options are limited and I am possibly putting myself under the microscope by involving the police. I have been lucky that I am able to get the posts removed because I have this wonderful community behind me but I am afraid this person is just getting increasingly frustrated that I am shutting down their avenues to get at me in some way. I am just wondering if anyone has been through the process of reporting harrassment to the cops, and could offer some advice or reassurance?  I have suspision of who it may be - namely an ex Perbite who wrote bad reviews before about me, and the wording he uses is very similar to the prior reviews. If you have any insight, it is very much appreciated!
> 
> Much gratitude,
> Aanya
> 
> 
> -- 
> Warmest regards,
> 
> Aanya
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> http://aanyamassage.blogspot.come
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