[Blacklabcollective] Jan 26 show review

[Quinn Roseblade]

Lou says there was a witness but I did not even go there. As I said, I'm not some sort of judge. 

To clarify, I did not ultimately believe Tracy should have been asked to leave. I talked to her about it, and I realized I wasn't capable of being in that position. Things are way too complicated. I just made sure they kept their distance and let them know they were both welcome to leave if they had an issue because I couldn't get in the middle and attempt to solve their relationship issues. 

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> On Jan 27, 2017, at 11:26 AM, Lindsay Kasting <l.kasting86 at gmail.com> wrote:
> 
> Did anyone see anything? Was there no security or other staff or even pals around to back you up when they were refusing to leave? That sounds fucked and super stressful!!! Sorry you had to deal with that!!! Also kind of bums me out that noone backed you up in that situation, sounds like something that could have really escalated, especially with the person refusing to leave!!!
> 
>> On Fri, Jan 27, 2017 at 9:56 AM, Quinn Roseblade <quinn.roseblade at gmail.com> wrote:
>> Totals from the show were:
>> $190 Door
>> $261.75 Bar
>> 
>> It was a good show, bands ran smoothly and it ended at 11pm.
>> 
>> However, there was an issue that has been brought to light in the Black Lab Facebook messages. Someone is claiming that I didn't handle a situation the way they wanted, and they are looking for someone to clarify Black Lab policy for them since they feel they were mistreated. I did my best, and feel like it was a hard situation to navigate.
>> 
>> This person (Lou) says their ex walked by them and punched them, so they wanted that person (Tracy) to be asked to leave. I immediately talked to Tracy, who told me that Lou was her abusive ex and they were lying about any physical altercation. She said she wasn't going to leave, even if I thought she should, because she knew it wasn't fair. So I let Lou know there wasn't much else I could do, and mostly just tried to hear them out. Lou let me know they appreciated me talking to them, but they weren't satisfied with my response and think I should have made Tracy leave due to alleged physical violence.
>> 
>> I am not the police or a judge or whoever in this world seems to think they're qualified in being in the middle of these situations. It was really stressful to keep the show going on time while also dealing with this. I hope we can make this clear for people to avoid situations like this in the future.
>> 
>> 
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