[Blacklabcollective] Complaint about Daryl

[Anju Singh]

Thanks for your comment, how do you feel about the suggestion I made in the
email as an action?


"For now, I don't think Daryl should bottomline any shows beyond what he
has been assigned to. I've heard he's quite moody, dramatic and can be a
dick. That said most people who say this don't think he's abusive, but
rather just a really negative person. To stay on the safe side, I think we
should drop him as a bottomliner?"

Anju

On Friday, 16 September 2016, mick mccann <nomoreroads at gmail.com> wrote:

> Thanks and I'm sorry you had to be the one to have to hear the complaint.
> I personally do find him negative and never has a good thing to say about
> anyone but do think Jill is great. I already spoke to him last wk about him
> insulting people i care about infront of me.
>
> But again this is just my personal opinion and should not have to affect
> the black lab or members. I have heard from others that he is somewhat
> possessive From others but unless Jill tells me Im not sure what do to as I
> don't want to feel like making decisions without her if that makes sense.
>
> its def annoying and hard to deal with everyone in the scenes problems.
> Unless someone feels unsafe in the venue of course. Kate is one of my best
> friends so I'm trying to remove my ego and bias from the situation.
> Tonight will be great! And I'm sorry ye all have to be involved in
> everything that happens in the Vancouver punk.
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> > On Sep 16, 2016, at 1:39 PM, Anju Singh <aanjusingh at gmail.com
> <javascript:;>> wrote:
> >
> > Heads up that we received a complaint about Daryl being emotionally
> abusive to Jill and being an asshole. Also the same person expressed
> concern with their band name - Harm and the concept of talking about
> self-harm which is triggering.
> >
> > The person who sent the concern sent it to me and Lindsay, and it was
> sent by Kate from Want.
> >
> > Kate has two concerns:
> >
> > "-he's an asshole who's talking shit about me [Kate], my partner [Andrew
> from black pills], and my band [WANT]
> > -he's a legit abuser and Jill is his victim"
> >
> > Jill doesn't feel like a victim but I'm hoping to talk to her in person
> to feel the situation out better.
> >
> > For now, I don't think Daryl should bottomline any shows beyond what he
> has been assigned to. I've heard he's quite moody, dramatic and can be a
> dick. That said most people who say this don't think he's abusive, but
> rather just a really negative person. To stay on the safe side, I think we
> should drop him as a bottomliner?
> >
> > I also am fucking flabbergasted that people can't talk to eachother and
> work out their own fucking problems. I'm not mad thatKate  brought this up,
> I think she did what she thought was best but I'm also confused why people
> come to us so much. I feel like the shit talk is really between them, and
> it's Vancouver, shit talk is as normal as the rain.
> >
> > Positive thing is this asserts why I need to step away from the space.
> Away from scene shit. Ideally off a cliff.
> >
> > (Obviously last sentence is a joke...)
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > --
> > Anju Singh
> >
> >
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