[Blacklabcollective] CONFIDENTIAL - Sean lovebomb

[Lindsay Kasting]

Whatever you all decide. I am in a band with him which obviously complicates things and puts me in a conflict of interest. I am into disclosure and dialogue for sure though, and support whatever the collective decides. I don't think he's been confronted or given a chance to speak for himself yet though.



> On Mar 6, 2016, at 11:28 PM, Leggo Sirens <sirensongs604 at gmail.com> wrote:
> 
> Well I think if she doesn't want him in the space or playing gigs there we need to respect that. We can also discuss it at the meeting if folks prefer. Probs better than email. The doodle is up.
> 
>> On Mar 6, 2016 11:24 PM, "Anju Singh" <aanjusingh at gmail.com> wrote:
>> she feels like he is not taking responsibility, and she is afraid because there was a threat involved
>> 
>>> On Sun, Mar 6, 2016 at 11:22 PM, mick mccann <nomoreroads at gmail.com> wrote:
>>> I agree with what legs said, is love bomb being receptive to her or just ignoring what she's saying do you know?
>>> 
>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>> 
>>>> On Mar 6, 2016, at 10:14 PM, Leggo Sirens <sirensongs604 at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>> 
>>>> Whatever she wants I think we should respect that.
>>>> 
>>>>> On Mar 6, 2016 9:57 PM, "Anju Singh" <aanjusingh at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>> One of those sentences was very strongly worded, I had just finished hearing the stories so I was a little bit triggered. He has made some mistakes, and I have taken on the role of ensuring that this person is represented well because she feels quite alone and scared, and I want to try to find a good solution.
>>>>> 
>>>>>> On Sun, Mar 6, 2016 at 8:29 PM, Anju Singh <aanjusingh at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>> Hello
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> 100% confidential please 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Someone spoke to me about a serious series of incidents that happened with lovebomb. Following this, I have heard more accusations. The survivor is not comfortable attending gigs with him there or playing, and he is not addressing the issues. 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Some of the scenarios are quite repulsive and upsetting. 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> I think we need to talk about this. 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> How should we proceed? 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> -- 
>>>>>> Anju Singh
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>>>>> Anju Singh
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